|Look Like Yourself: Shayne
posted by Look Like Yourself Project on Nov 13, 2017 10:30am | comments
Look Like Yourself Project
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A visual exploration into the diverse lives of transgender and gender-nonconforming people.
Shayne Malcom is a self-taught transgender photographer who strives to bring awareness to the transgender and gender non-conforming community of Philadelphia through his project 'Look Like Yourself.'
When did you realize you didnít relate to your birth gender?
I would say i started realizing i didnít relate to my birth in my early teens. I never wore the typical girl clothes or played with the usual girl toys. You would find me riding my BMX bike through the puddles getting covered in mud, shooting hoops or playing video games. I remember hiding behind the recliner with a pair of scissors, slowly cutting my hair shorter and shorter. I came out to my mother as a lesbian and it just never felt right to say. The first person i met who was Trans helped me find my authentic self.
How did you deal with that mentally & physically?
Finding myself was never an easy task. Iím the shy quiet kid who watches from afar and bottles up their emotions. Iíll admit i did self harm for various reasons and over time i discovered that didnít help, in fact it made things worse. Most days i use music to express my feelings to bring myself to a happy place but recently i got back into photography and that has helped more than ever.
Give me glimpse of the inside you verse your outward appearance.
To be honest i think now both my inside me and my outward appearance are on the same page. Quiet, shy, laid back yet iím extremely sarcastic. I always warn people to not take me seriously because of my sarcasm and sick humor.
How would you prefer people to address you? pronouns, preferred name etc
I use male pronouns and answer to Shayne but honestly if you just understand that i am human, Iím content.
What does gender identity mean to you?
Gender identity to me is how you see yourself on a daily basis. I donít believe it should be determined by anyone but yourself.
Was there someone in your life that helped you start to see your authentic/true self? Tell me about how they helped you/who they are/
Throughout my life there has been several people who have helped me find myself. Assorted myspace & live journal friends i made many years back, real life friends and those who have supported me. My best friend Jaden has always been there for me and iíd like to think we balance one another throughout the last 8 years.
Talk to me about your struggles with identity and how you've grown to overcome them.
Also include anything you want within your story
Ive always struggled with who i am and i donít think that will ever go away because i have grown to accept that i am always changing to become a better version of who i was yesterday. If you met me 15 years ago, you wouldnít think i am the same person honestly. Struggling is apart of life, as much as we hate it, though it does help shape you into someone amazing.