Will & Harper: A Heartfelt Journey of Friendship and Transition
By:
Steve McCann
Executive Director of PhillyGayCalendar
Will & Harper: A Heartwarming Journey of Friendship and Acceptance
The 2024 documentary, “Will & Harper”, directed by Josh Greenbaum, is a stunning tribute to the power of friendship and the beauty of the LGBTQ+ experience. The film captures the real-life relationship between comedian Will Ferrell and his best friend and long-time collaborator, Harper Steele, a trans woman navigating her transition in the public eye. What could have easily been a standard road trip documentary evolves into a deeply moving story of love, identity, and acceptance.
From the start, the film sets a tone of understanding and respect. Ferrell, a comedy icon known for his lighthearted humor, uses his characteristic charm to add levity to Harper’s journey. Their road trip across America is not just a travelogue but a metaphor for the emotional road they traverse as friends. The film underscores that, even as people evolve, the core of friendship remains intact. Ferrell’s unwavering support for Harper highlights how love can transcend gender identity and societal norms.
As they travel through various small towns and cities, Harper faces the realities of living openly as a transgender woman in a country still grappling with acceptance. Yet, despite the challenges, the film focuses on the positive, showing that kindness and understanding can emerge in the unlikeliest places. At every stop—from roadside diners to sports games—the pair are met with warmth and empathy, a powerful reminder of the progress being made in LGBTQ+ visibility.
One of the film’s most touching moments is Harper’s return to a bar in Oklahoma she used to frequent before transitioning. Initially anxious about how she would be received, Harper is embraced by the bar’s patrons, culminating in an emotional and joyful moment. It’s scenes like this that set “Will & Harper” apart from other documentaries. Rather than focusing on fear or rejection, it amplifies the love and acceptance that can be found when people open their hearts.
Will Ferrell’s role in the documentary is equally heartwarming. His genuine curiosity about Harper’s experience never feels forced or performative. Instead, his open-mindedness serves as an example of the kind of allyship that LGBTQ+ individuals deserve from friends and family. Ferrell asks questions, listens, and most importantly, ensures that Harper knows she is loved, no matter what.
“Will & Harper” is more than just a film about a trans woman’s journey—it’s a celebration of human connection. It highlights how, even in a world that can sometimes feel hostile, love and friendship have the power to create spaces of safety and belonging. The film succeeds in changing hearts and minds by presenting a story that is as joyful as it is transformative.
In a time when LGBTQ+ rights are still under threat, “Will & Harper” shines as a beacon of hope, showing that with support, understanding, and love, the world can be a more accepting place for everyone. This film isn’t just for the LGBTQ+ community; it’s for anyone who values the power of friendship and the importance of standing by those we care about.
“Will & Harper” is a must-watch for its positive portrayal of trans experiences and the strong message that love, in all its forms, truly knows no boundaries.
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